Avenue of Release (one) – Purity 

QUICKNOTE: I made a decision for ME and one that could ultimately change everything – however there is always a need for self reflection and healing in life especially where one’s position has drastically changed in a few years  – and if during times of healing and soul searching, dead ends break off then we must give a big cheer to results 🙂

AVENUE OF RELEASE (one) – Purity 

She knows the Divine one is watching intently – knowing her heart is pure and most importantly always has been – playing with purity of another is a radical move,  dangerous and unfair.  

even if all she has before her feet are breadcrumbs she will turn it into a royal feast. 

The universe hears the moans of the true hearted individual –  it comforts her and ensures her that all will be well! 

The heavens open up for her and release tools of survival – she will not be mocked or fooled around – nor will she deal with the actions of a plagued human being any longer than she has too! 

She is equipped to win and so she will – even if all she has before her feet are breadcrumbs she will turn it into a royal feast.  

she nurtures an active conscience, she has no reason to offend the universe

If water is all she needs today – it will flow endlessly for her use 
Her heart keeps the door of rejuvenation open, prepared and patient! Her cries are heard the moment tears detach from the duct – she is cared for and clothed in compassion – she cannot be torn down or raped of peace 

Her heart keeps the door of rejuvenation open, prepared and patient!

Her healing is plentiful, joyous and enabled, she feels it deep within her BUT she needs time to bond with it, bond with herself, bond with life again. 

She will triumph – why? – she nurtures an active conscience, she has no reason to offend the universe…


Beautiful Life 

Procrastination, YES – you have boldly stolen enough of my creative time!

I am pushing forward and this feeling is unstoppable 

My actions now speak louder than my words

I look at myself with a sigh of relief – confidence is now my friend 

Fear of uncomfortable progress no longer haunts me

My actions now speak louder than my words

Spreading my fresh new wings from this crowded coocoon of doubt has never felt so emancipating  

Reaching out I touch life 

Life has always been beautiful, question is how long have I not enjoyed this blessing

confidence is now my friend 

Fresh air is so revitalising that the indoor boxed state of mind is forced to take a back seat

I intentionally love life with a passion so fiery – insecurities burn to ashes 

No longer will procrastination sit by my side and gently pat my back – there is no longer space for skepticism and instability!

I want to love life with a passion so fiery – insecurities burn to ashes

Moving forward is all I wish to know! 

***Update*** Long Distance Relationship series 

Hi all,
I know it has taken a while since I announced the compliation of my popular Long Distance Relationship series into a mini self guide – I do however have a valid reason! 

In between promising to release a mini guide and now, I was blessed to carry twin girls within me – and doubly blessed with their birth last year! So yes, I have been a full time mother for a little over a year now, focusing and nurturing our two daughters into happy little ladies of substance.

I am ready to get back to the drawing table with my self guide, it will not be an overnight project though work on it commences again next week  – I know many out there are dealing with the issues attached to being in a long distance relationship and so this book will be a perfect companion.  

If you are new to this series and would like a peek view click here for excerpts:


Thank you again for your patience and fabulous support! 

Have a joyful Sunday! 

Random Post – The Beauty of Motherhood!


There is no better feeling then being a mother! The responsibility placed on us as mothers adds so much depth and excitement to a life so centralised on self – then all of a sudden (well after nine miraculous months) someone matters so much that your mind is constantly clouded with endless possibilities of what you can do to satisfy this beautiful little person who depends 100% on you.

God chooses wisely – some abuse this blessing while others live for it – cherish it like their very own lifeline. God did not mistakenly place us in this position of influence – NO – we are handpicked and our children are a direct reflection of the glory of God in our life.

Every morning * smiles from these innocent souls! How gratifying is such – how cleansing it is to know that each morning your star will smile up at you – mother! No blemish…mornings are that more important – each day a developmental milestone for both mother and child

As a mother something changes within you – all of a sudden you see the world as a place to protect baby from – all of a sudden you feel like a superhero. The bad elements you nurtured within you are somehow burdensome – you want to detox your life of the meaningless and include the meaningful – all of a sudden your future counts – you aim to make life a comfy bed of roses for your child – you are motivated by the purest love to cater to your baby’s innocent little being.

You no longer want to fight, you no longer want to feel distressed – you cannot be bothered to hold that grudge – you really have no time to deal with opinions of all – you have no energy to invest in pretence – you just want your time to be renewed and used wisely to inspire your child

Motherhood is beautiful – a beauty to cherish…a unique jewel to keep safe from the elements

Becoming a mother is a life changing event – a duty post with no expiry date – you will always be mother in the present and when your time is up on this earth * you are still Mother…

Stay blessed & inspired

♥ ℓavergnéaiko™

Tool up for 2015 and beyond…


The New Year 2015 is fast approaching, we are in fact just hours away! Use today, New Years Eve (NYE) to discover vital tools for a new year better than the last and a year of lasting growth

This NYE load up your essentials and head into 2015 equipped…

1) Pack, and I mean PACK a heavy duffle bag of forgiveness – people will continue to break our hearts and do the unexpected! The way we deal with each disappointment depends heavily on our ability to forgive – so keep forgiveness as close as ever. Make it a duty to not hold grudges – move on as swiftly as the wind!

The way we deal with each disappointment depends heavily on our ability to forgive

2) Fold up your sheets of compassion and store them deep within you – the world is in a constant state that requires helping hands at all time – suffering will not just disappear with the coming of a new year! The evolution of media though awesome in one respect has worked against us in another – desensitising the masses! We see so much pain and suffering everyday (news and adverts) that we somehow close up! Allow fresh compassion to flow again – joining a local charity or outreach may just do the trick

3) Load up on tons of energetic love that will transcend any situation you are forced to deal with – love that will reach those who require it and mend bridges that have previously been burnt. As Pheadra Parks recently stated “Love is a verb not a noun” – therefore action is required.

4) Clear space for the element of surprise – do not allow anything or anyone to truly shock you! Take everything with a certain ease, calmness is health in small doses – remember that

calmness is health in small doses

5) Channel up courage – courage to rock your world with the unthinkable- what you thought you could never achieve add it to your bucket list!

6) Pressure yourself with commitment – make your ideas count – focus on what matters and eliminate procrastination from all you do. Procrastination is a thief – close your doors and lock up really tight when facing procrastination head on.

Procrastination is a thief

7) Double dose on joy – this life is too tight for bouts of unhappiness – see God in all that happens- see Him in all you do- joy is untouchable when it is stored within you in great measures

joy is untouchable when it is stored within you in great measures

8) Train yourself in selectiveness – an attitude of preserving what is necessary to your growth as a person and dismissing with immediate effect sources that intend to tear you down! It is not every word spoken to you that must be sealed and signed by your acceptance – listening does not necessarily require you accepting what you have heard! Remember that

It is not every word spoken to you that must be sealed and signed by your acceptance

9) Let go of expectations – do not lay 100% trust in the hands of anything or anyone – read my previous post here “is trust a curse”. Trust is a matter of who deserves it – simple truth!

10) Increase your need for enrichment- look after the body God has blessed you with – deal with it as you would your best diamond piece – fill it with food for the soul as well as nourishment for the physical – once your soul is enriched everything including your health will fall in perfect harmony

11) Fight for what is right – no more straddling the fence wondering who’s opinion matters. Take your life at the horns – decide what is right for you and your loved ones. Never compromise, never walk on eggshells.

12) Fill your suitcase with desires – find out what excites you, research on a hobby you have admired for a while – find that zumba class you have been avoiding for months, step out in your dancing shoes and learn how to wiggle and shake your body at a Salsa class – tickle that part of you that has remained dormant! If you are a 49 year old housewife and love playing computer games – go and buy yourself a console… Why not?

13) Dress yourself in self love – stand out, accentuate what you love the most about yourself! No more hiding behind the big bad wolf in your life – stand bold! The gift of life was placed firmly at your feet – rip it open and dive in with both hands

14) Enjoy your own company, appreciate time alone to think things through! Company all the time can cause a deafening of your inner most voice! Clear your space, free up social time and deal with harmonising with who you really are

Clear your space, free up social time and deal with harmonising with who you really are

15) Armour yourself in godliness – we are not aware of what the future holds – but with God all things are possible! Faith in the unknown is exactly what our tomorrows are made of – shield yourself with God’s majesty, His comfort and best of all His peace – do not take God for granted – this world is not a huge playground as presumed!

Faith in the unknown is exactly what our tomorrows are made of

16) Flourish in kindness, be gentle to others! Try not to invalidate another’s feelings and be open to the mistakes of your fellow person without judging them. Kindness shows all over ones face – who needs a cosmetic company’s youth cream when you can just be kind hearted and glow!

17) Wrap yourself in resilience – do not change negatively to deal with negativity – why bury the goodness within you to fight the bitterness of another – it is a loosing battle and you will hurt more than ever! Stay true to yourself! Never settle

The above are my personal resolutions for 2015, though not an exhaustive list- I am sure many will relate! Copy and paste this for anyone you feel needs to read this

God bless and have an awesome 2015!!!



When your mind explodes and all hope is lost

When your heartbeat trebles to the sound of regrets

When all you desire is now locked away for life

When the only dangling pieces of hope are suddenly smothered in lies

When all you seek for is rebellion

When all you need is peace

When the doors are closing and air tight you finally reach for your pen and slowly jot: FINISHED

Disrespect who?


Disrespect slowly but surely closes the window to the heart

Disrespect does not bring down strongholds it raises them

Disrespect turns the humble to rubble and the strong to dust

Disrespect wipes away the tiniest glimmers of shared hope

Disrespect harms the purest of intentions and drags around the bones of goodwill

Disrespect feasts on the mind of its target – invading areas of self worth

Disrespect lingers like rotten food – slowly deteriorating the inner beings of self

Disrespect widens the gap between lovers and weakens bonds of steel

Disrespect tears down plans for the future and tramples on the present

Disrespect knows no bound – its sting is deadly

Disrespect mocks the innocent soul and feeds the egotistical spirit

Disrespect blinds itself to the obvious good and sees only darkness in places where goodness reigns

Disrespect enjoys the tears and weaknesses of its victims

Disrespect digs its sharpened nails into the root of individuals

Disrespect knows no peace and resides on shaky waters

Disrespect will never change its colours…its spots will remain the same!

Disrespect revises the past and attacks all possibilities

Disrespect is blind to self – playing the harp of victimisation and blaming others for its failures

Disrespect voids feelings and in turn regulates hate

Disrespect attempts to build a home and with the same hands demolishes it

Disrespect does not value mistakes made – instead it ridicules

Disrespect transforms saints to sinners

A note:
*be kind to people it is a necessary good – perfection to impress others is not our goal – it is impossible to perfect any flaw in a fellow human being. Tearing another person down is a deliberate act to seek out perfection in them for selfish reasons such as “oh you really annoy me when…” – to be quite frank, perfection is an area we will never truly understand!