As human beings we feed on the premise of relationships – every part of our lives is dominated by one relationship or the other. We form relationships on so many levels and invest our emotions and behaviours in different degrees to each existing association. However there is one kind of relationship that calls for more than just mere emotions and behaviours, one that possess many layers and tugs are all areas of ones being – a loving relationship between a man and woman. Once such a relationship is formed there is a clouded desire for everything to be perfect and a number one need for togetherness.
I found myself in a blissful relationship, and it was torn away from me by distance, I use the word torn not to be extreme but to describe exactly how I felt when the discussion arose and decisions were made back in 2010. I am in no way claiming to be a LDR guru but I have experienced it first hand and can say that it was interestingly challenging when disagreements surfaced.
Individuals involved in a LDR must make room for issues to be addressed frequently; it is very dangerous to ignore pressing issues that naturally arise because of distance…